
Carl "Odie" McNeese
Calhoun, GA
78 Years Young
Tell us about your family and your accomplishments.
- I was married to my first wife for 53 years. She passed away. I have 2 sons.
- I met my second wife at the senior center, Jeanette Dodd. She was active at the center and played the piano. I invited her to my church and we did things together as friends. When my preacher said he liked my girlfriend, I was quick to say, “she’s just a friend.” . For awhile, everyone was getting us married but me. It was God’s plan. When we got married, the preacher said we were the oldest couple he had ever married.
- I worked and retired from the GA Department of Transportation where I worked as an inspector and later in the maintenance department. I received the Man of the Year Meritorious Award, but I like to think of it as the Team Award, because the men really earned it. I learned more about math from the transportation department than I ever learned in school
- I like to garden and work in my yard and flower bed.
Do you visit a senior center?
Yes. Calhoun Senior Center.
How long have you been attending the center?
About four years.
What made you start going to the center?
After my wife passed away. I found fellowship and I’m close to people — just like family.
What kinds of activities do you enjoy at the center
Talking - "running my mouth." I thought I would never laugh again after my wife passed.
How has the center helped you Age Well and Live Well?
“Laughing.” If you can laugh it helps you. I just love people and talking.
Do you volunteer at your senior center or at other community organizations?
- I used to carry the trash out at the senior center.
- I’m a deacon at the Newton Baptist Church
- Jeanette and I visit the homebound in the afternoons and make rounds to the hospital and nursing homes. I’m a talker, so I love doing this and it cheers the people up.
- We go to visit people and cheer them up. When we leave, I know they have cheered me up more than I have cheered them.
What advice would you give to young people today on how to live a good long life?
Go to church. The Lord really has to touch people first.
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